My First Transgender Date!

newtodaweb — Mon, 10 Dec 2007 20:04:18 +0000

This is my personal story of the first transgender date I had and what I have learned. To start when I was younger I rented an adult video called “The Many Faces of Shannon”. Ever since then I was hooked on transsexuals!

The video gave me some insight into the transgender community and what I thought was the right way to meet and treat transgender woman. When I started my search I used a shemale personals site. I found that meeting transsexualsis best online. Here is where my lessons were learned.

The first thing I learned when referring to a transsexual while instant messaging is most will be offended if you ask them if they are a “shemale”. Most of them prefer the terms “transsexual, TS, TG, or transgender”.

The second thing I found is many transgender women do not like to go out in public to meet men. Even in today’s world and in the bigger liberal cities there are a lot of people that would hurt anyone who is transsexual, gay, or bisexual. But transsexual women are especially targeted. In many cases they may meet a man at a bar and once the guy finds out about them they may beat them or even do worst.

Here is the scary fact I have found out watching a show on TV. The transgender community has almost no rights or recognition far less then the gay and lesbian community. They are discriminated against in the work place and many of them have a real hard time getting work, even if they have worked in there chosen field for years, and are the best candidate for the job. What sometimes happens when a transgender woman can’t afford to live or needs money to get sex reassignment surgery she turns to prostitution resulting in getting arrested.

Here is the part that really pissed me off! In the prison system transgender people are recognized by birth sex and not who they really are. So picture this person who is all women except for one part has to be in a men’s prison. They treat them as men and many times don’t even allow them to get the hormones they need. They have almost no prison rights. You can only imagine what they have to deal with from other inmates and the guards. It’s not pretty. When chatting with a transsexual respect them as they already have enough to put up with just getting through life. I do want to say at least Palm Beach County in Florida has passed some laws for equal rights for the transgender persons.

If you think you are ready to date a transgender person ask your self this. If you meet a transsexual are you mature enough to recognize them for there real sexual identity and not there birth sex?

Back to my date. I got online and singed up on a transgender dating site. I started emailing transsexuals that I thought were Cute and in a matter of days I was chatting online. I was respectful and before you knew it I had a few phone numbers to call.

What I did not expect is the voice issue. Some transgender women have a female voice and others who started there transitions later in life have less then a female voice. Personally I prefer a very feminine voice.

I finally met a female transsexual I thought was beautiful, had a wonderful voice and I clicked with her on the phone. We set a date and the next day we were to meet in Miami!

I got in my car and started to drive to her place. My heart was pounding and I could not believe I was doing this! I showed up at here door and knocked. She opened the door and I could not believe how Hot this woman was. She was Asian, tall about 5’9, 115lbs, had beautiful hair and a pretty face. She was ten times better looking in person then her pics and her pics were hot!